EP27: The Cost of Belonging – with Guest Andrea D. Carter

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EP27: The Cost of Belonging – with Guest Andrea D. Carter

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In Part 2, Andrea D. Carter, organizational scientist and creator of the Belonging First Methodology™, talks about the personal side of belonging — the messy, inconvenient, unfinished part we all wrestle with.

Andrea shares how belonging often breaks down not because people fail, but because conditions fail — and how we can start rebuilding those conditions both inside organizations and inside ourselves. From how we negotiate our needs (or forget them altogether), to how generational patterns shape our ability to connect, this is a powerful look at what it takes to stay in the room when leaving would be easier.

We explore what it means to do belonging work for yourself first, to rebuild from burnout, and to recognize when not fitting in isn’t failure.

This one’s tender, timely, and quietly radical.

👤 About Andrea D. Carter

Andrea D. Carter (she/her) is an organizational scientist, adjunct professor at Adler University, and creator of the Belonging First Methodology — a neuroscience-driven framework to measure and strengthen belonging across workplaces and communities. She’s one of MSN’s 2025 Top 10 Disruptors and an award-winning researcher helping leaders and HR professionals transform toxic culture into psychologically safe, high-performing environments.

Find her work and resources at andreadcarter.substack.com or explore her human-centered leadership insights on fisher.osu.edu.

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreadcarter/

Research: https://www.adler.edu/en-ca/faculty-engagement/faculty-directory/carter-andrea-d/Belonging 

HealthCheck: https://belongingfirst.com/belongingbreakdown

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